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MY MOTHER WAS AN
OYSTER
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My three brothers will be surprised to hear this. Actually, our mother
was more a pearl than an oyster, a lovely lady who lived 97 years. Her
name was Mary and her pride was we four boys. |
The oyster thing came about this way. |
I was asked to speak to the Unitarians on Orcas Island. The suggested subject
was “The Meaning of the Sea.” Wow! That’s like being assigned to do a 20-minute
sermon on the Meaning of God! At least there was room for my imagination
to work. |
I usually start my thinking about a sermon with a time of free association.
This may last a few minutes, hours or days. I never know what’s going to
come up. After I get some sense of direction I begin background reading
and research followed by some writing. At some point I organize what might
pass for a sermon. |
I have learned that if I stop at that point I usually end up saying what
anyone else would think or say about the subject. So I make that ending
point my beginning point. That’s hard work. |
So, I was sitting in my room in Baja, during siesta time, trying to imagine
what to say to those folks on Orcas Island who certainly know at least
as much about the sea as I do. I was reading Steinbeck’s book, “The Log
from the Sea of Cortez,” which describes his scientific collection expedition
in the Gulf of California. Our favorite hideout is along his journey route.
At any rate, Steinbeck was speaking to me, as he does every year when I
re-read his book. |
He offers a semi-scientific, mystical view of the relationship of all things. |
He reminded me that I’ve had some of the same feelings and thoughts on
my own beach on Puget Sound. |
I get some strange ideas while doing normal things. Like one day when I
was walking on our tidelands. I’ve walked that same beach for decades.
I walk very carefully when the tide is low because of exposed barnacles
and oysters. |
I’m confessing to you that I have been known to talk to the barnacles and
oysters. Preachers don’t seem to care who they talk to. I’m pretty sure
the barnacles and oysters don’t hear me, but who knows? I’ve wondered the
same thing about my congregations. |
I don’t underestimate barnacles and oysters. If they were discovered on
Mars it would be the biggest news in history. They are a miracle and a
wonder. They have certainly lived successfully on our planet longer than
our species. |
They are different from you and me in at least one respect. While they
live, eat, reproduce and fulfill whatever destiny is theirs, they don’t
appear to have any conscious awareness of anything beyond their shells.
For instance, they can’t look into the skies and view planets and stars
and galaxies, or even the moon—I don’t think. |
So I talk to them and tell them what a wonderful and amazing thing it is
to have life in this unbelievable universe. We may feel small and insignificant,
but we are part of something grand and special. I tell them that I will
try to look and imagine and wonder for them. |
And then I remind them that I am related to them. We’re all relatives.
We all have the same mother. We owe our existence to the sea. |
Bingo! A sermon title: “My Mother is an Oyster.” |
Convoluted, what? But it gets me where I think I want to go on Mother’s
Day. Who is my mother? Who is the life-bringer and life-bearer? Who is
the mother we all share, the one we can’t have life without? |
There is yet another step. What do we owe our mother? Gratitude and respect
and care. What about our global abuse of our mother? And what about the
health of all water and its lack? Some think that the next wars will not
be about oil, but about water. |
I speak for all who are part of my family. And as I promised those guys
on the beach, I speak also for them. After all, we all have the same mother.
— Art Morgan,
May 1, 2004
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